Hey Beauties, just a little some different today! <3

God knows for ages i was the one trying to fit in then it got to the point where i thought, no! i will be who i want to be.
I know how hard it can be in our society to be yourself with all the Magazine pictures of "you have to this size and if your not your not beautiful"  and i think thats wrong in all honesty. There have a been a few truths i had to discover but doing Sociology helped with that.

In Society we have our own Norms of what is considered "Normal and Accepted"  and when we dont listen to these unwritten rules a punishment follows- eg someone who is an alternative person being who they want to be, they are laughed at and made fun of because they are not of the Norm or Someone who wears makeup but is male- subject to a ton of questions, people not liking you for no reason etc
But! i want to say if your out there and your conforming to societies Norms because your afraid of what will happen i say let it happen i have been so much happier since becoming who i wanted to be. When you place limits on yourself you don't achieve as much as you could

If you are a Male and want to do something not considered the "Norm" do it, it will be hard but people respect honesty and truth i have found if you stand up and say "i am what i am" and ignore the haters they don't disappear you just notice them less. I walked down a busy city centre in the middle of the day wearing heels laughing and joking with people and someone said to me "How do you deal with the people looking at you" My Response "People were looking?" i genuinely dont notice it any more
 what once was scary now is normal for me

Just think, about this time last year i had never ever put makeup on myself! i was afraid to even put a lipgloss on in my room with no one about, now that tells me something about how society views people who break there "shackles" if you will.

If you are Female do what you want to do i can only say that if you want to do something do it you will be so much happier the world is such a better place when you can say "i dont care i am me"
Don't justify yourself to someone the only thing that matters is how you see yourself not how others see you


If you are LGBT i can say there is a struggle to find yourself and i guess in a sense it does get better people notice less you become just another person and who you love doesn't even matter.

If you are anyone or anything else just be how you are or be who you want to be dont feel the need to conform just because "someone said so" people dont like it when you think for yourself, Peoples opinions mean nothing unless you ask for them 


Always remember, you arnt attractive to everyone but you will be to someone <3  (that keeps me going :P))

I love everyone of you guys! <3 you are amazing and sweet and give me the courage to be who i want to be and to spread the message of "ITS OK TO BE DIFFERENT!" ....trust me its better than being normal those people are fucked up haha
if you ever need help or anyone to talk to about anything i am always here for every one of you <3
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MrAJBx3/Andii James
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